Retirement

Retirement Messages for a Colleague Who’s Also a Friend

When a work friend retires, you lose the daily part of the friendship: the coffee, the lunches, the shared eye-roll in meetings. Your message can acknowledge that loss while celebrating them.

You can be more personal here than in a typical retirement card. Mention your shared history, inside jokes they’ll get, and your plans to stay in touch outside work.

How to write it

  • Mention how you met or your first memory of working together.
  • Make a concrete plan: a lunch date, a walk, a visit.
  • It’s fine to say you’ll miss them a lot. Friends appreciate honesty.

Personal and heartfelt

  • Fifteen years of coffee breaks, and you’ve been my favourite part of every one. Work won’t be the same — but our friendship will.

  • You were the first person to make me laugh on my first day, and you’ve kept doing it ever since.

  • Losing you as a colleague is hard. Keeping you as a friend is the easy part.

  • Thank you for being my work wife / work husband / work everything. Enjoy every minute.

  • You’ve been my sounding board, my lunch buddy, and my favourite person in every meeting.

Staying in touch

  • Lunch every month — I’ve already put it in the calendar. Happy retirement!

  • Retirement won’t get rid of me that easily. Coffee next week?

  • You’ll have more time for our walks now. No more excuses.

  • I’ll text you every Monday so you can gloat about not being here.

Funny for a friend

  • Who will I complain to about everything now? I expect you to answer my calls.

  • You’re abandoning me with these people. Happy retirement, you lucky thing.

  • The office is losing its best gossip source. Keep me informed from the outside.

  • I’m not crying, you’re crying. Okay, we’re both crying.

  • You can retire from work, but not from our friendship. Sorry.

Short and sweet

  • Best colleague, better friend. Happy retirement!

  • So happy for you. So sad for me.

  • Friends first, coworkers second. Enjoy it!

  • Here’s to more time for friendship.

What to avoid

  • Private stories that could embarrass them in front of other colleagues.

Organising the whole card? Our retirement card guide covers timing and who to invite.